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Warning : count(): Parameter must be an array or an object that implements Countable in /home/customer/www/archive.newlife.com/public_html/wp-includes/theme.php on line 630 New Life The New Life Live Show is America's #1 Christian Counseling Talk Show. Since 1985 New Life Live has been broadcasting as a nationally-syndicated, interactive talk radio program which deals with mental health, emotional, relational and spiritual issues from a biblical perspective. We Can Help, Call Us! 800-NEW-LIFE 800-639-5433 Listen Live! Home Radio Listen to the Latest Radio Program How to Tune In You Can Be On New Life Live! Meet the Hosts Steve Arterburn Dr. Henry Cloud Dr. Jill Hubbard Dr. Sheri Keffer Jason Martinkus Dr. David Stoop Dr. John Townsend Chris Williams Milan Yerkovich Show Archives TV Workshops Every Man’s Battle Intimacy in Marriage Lose it for Life Marriage Solution Take Your Life Back Women in the Battle Testimonies Store Counseling Contact The Art of Acceptance October 26, 2016 By New Life 3 Comments Come to terms with God and be at peace; in this way good will come to you . – Job 22:21 Sometimes, we must accept life on its terms, not our own. Life has a way of unfolding, not as we will, but as it will. And sometimes, there is precious little we can do to change things. When events transpire that are beyond our control, we have a choice: we can either learn the art of acceptance, or we can make ourselves miserable as we struggle to change the unchangeable. We must entrust the things we cannot change to God. Once we have done so, we can prayerfully and faithfully tackle the important work that He has placed before us: doing something about the things we can change . . . and doing it sooner rather than later. Can you summon the courage and the wisdom to accept life on its own terms? If so, you’ll most certainly be rewarded for your good judgment. – Steve Arterburn Surrender to the Lord is not a tremendous sacrifice, not an agonizing performance. It is the most sensible thing you can do . – Corrie Ten Boom He does not need to transplant us into a different field. He transforms the very things that were before our greatest hindrances, into the chief and most blessed means of our growth. No difficulties in your case can baffle Him. Put yourself absolutely into His hands, and let Him have His own way with you . – Elisabeth Elliot Ultimately things work out best for those who make the best of the way things work out . – Barbara Johnson TODAY’S PRAYER Father, the events of this world unfold according to a plan that I cannot fully understand. But You understand. Help me to trust You, Lord, even when I am grieving. Help me to trust You even when I am confused. Today, in whatever circumstances I find myself, let me trust Your will and accept Your love . . . completely. Amen Filed Under: Devotional Tagged With: acceptance , Art , barbara johnson , change , choice , control , corrie ten boom , elisabeth elliot , judgment , sacrifice , wisdom , work Lunch With A Friend October 25, 2016 By New Life 1 Comment Pray for us. We are sure that we have a clear conscience and desire to live honorably in every way. – Hebrews 13:18 Only the good news of Jesus Christ encourages us to honestly think about who we really are and to address our shortcomings in a way that won’t cause us to wrongly rely upon our own efforts. Let me explain with this example: A while back I had lunch with a non-Christian friend. As we ate, we began discussing spiritual things. I made reference to the prodigal son, and no sign of recognition crossed his face. He’d never heard the story; he knew nothing about the Bible. As the conversation progressed, he got around to stating his theology: namely, good people make it to heaven. He considered himself a kind, loving, and good person. And without a doubt, he’s one of the nicest people I know. But as we talked longer, he discussed his internet relationships with women ready to leave their husbands to live with him. His “ goodness ,” as he called it, gave these women new hope about men. I felt compelled to challenge his thinking. “ What would these ladies’ husbands think of your so-called goodness?” I asked. “ Has this ‘ goodness ‘ ever prompted you to call one of these men and ask if he minded that you were having an internet relationship with his wife? ” As it turned out, his “ goodness ” wasn’t as good as he thought it was. Rely upon God’s goodness. As good as you think you might be, that goodness is nothing next to His. – Steve Arterburn Reason often makes mistakes, but conscience never does. – Josh Billings Filed Under: Devotional Tagged With: Christian , goodness , honesty , Jesus Christ , Lord Jesus Christ , religious pluralism , World Be Optimistic October 24, 2016 By New Life Leave a Comment My cup runs over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; and I will dwell in the house of the Lord Forever. – Psalm 23:5-6 Are you an optimistic, hopeful, enthusiastic Christian? You should be. After all, as a believer, you have every reason to be optimistic about life here on earth and life eternal. As C. H. Spurgeon observed, “ Our hope in Christ for the future is the mainstream of our joy .” But sometimes, you may find yourself pulled down by the inevitable demands and worries of life here on earth. If you find yourself discouraged, stressed, or both, then it’s time to take your concerns to God. When you do, He will lift your spirits and renew your strength. Today, make this promise to yourself and keep it: vow to be a hope-filled Christian. Think optimistically about your life, your profession, your family, and your future. Trust your hopes, not your fears. Take time to celebrate God’s glorious creation. And then, when you’ve filled your heart with hope and gladness, share your optimism with others. They’ll be better for it, and so will you. – Steve Arterburn Go forward confidently, energetically attacking problems, expecting favorable outcomes . – Norman Vincent Peale The people whom I have seen succeed best in life have always been cheerful and hopeful people who went about their business with a smile on their faces . – Charles Kingsley No Christian can be a pessimist, for Christianity is a system of radical optimism . – William Ralph Inge TODAY’S PRAYER Dear Lord, I will look for the best in other people, I will expect the best from You, and I will try my best to do my best—today and every day. Amen Filed Under: Devotional Tagged With: C. H. Spurgeon , charles kingsley , Christ , Christian , earth , God , Life , Norman Vincent Peale , time , today Grief Not Allowed October 21, 2016 By New Life 5 Comments I tell you the truth, you will weep and mourn while the world rejoices. You will grieve, but your grief will turn to joy. – John 16:20 In our culture, it seems more acceptable for us to be angry than sad. Consequently, many of us stumble through life without understanding our feelings, completely out of touch with our emotions. We may be deeply grieved by a number of circumstances, but we don’t feel safe acknowledging our sadness. It’s socially “ okay ” for them to vent their anger, but not to explore and discuss the deep hurt beneath it. When you feel sad, anger seems like a safe retreat. It causes your adrenaline to rush. It commands attention and demands respect. It allows you to stay in control, and it keeps uncomfortable feelings and situations at a safe distance. However your failure to grieve can actually poison you. The Bible offers no precedent for us to suppress our grief. The Old Testament depicts many people showing real grief. The men of Israel would rip their clothes, sprinkle themselves with ashes, wear black armbands, and spend time in mourning. They would wail before the Lord without feeling shame. That experience allowed them to express their emotions and then move on without the baggage of repressed feelings. When we don’t grieve, we stuff our disappointments and sadness, and compensate for them with oth...